
Today is the official day two of this course. Let me mention a few things first, though.
20 MINUTES. The day you get and read the package she has you learn a lot about yourself, about what you believe writing is and will do. If you're honest then you can really glean a lot from this first twenty minutes. What I love about Holly is she not only encourages you to be completely honest but she states that all your thoughts and intentions with writing are important; meaning if you want writing to make you famous or rich don't pretend you don't want that. Acknowledge that it's a part of what you want from writing.
DAY ONE. Yesterday... It was really, really brutal. I find that in any particular day I waste almost FOUR HOURS being distracted. This is at work, at home, out and about. I get distracted and off task A LOT apparently. That was the habit that I knew was going to build up.
I also waste a lot of time sitting on the couch watching TV with my husband. Now, for TV lovers this is not a waste. But I don't like TV. I like a few shows - anything Discovery, History, some shows on living spaces and I'm a sucker for a few others. I love movies and TV shows on DVD, but what my husband generally watches I am not interested in. For the sake of spending some time with him I sit and watch. To the tune of THREE hours yesterday. That was just yesterday. I know it's not like this everyday, but sometimes I'm sure it's more.
That just floors me. For myself, for someone who doesn't even like what she's watching to see that much of it... Now, it
was up and down time. Do a chore, sit for 30 minutes. Go in and work on the computer, watch for 30 minutes. But it still adds up.
That was the whole point of the day. To learn where the time in your life is running away from you and how you can better manage it. The next two days seem to be about harnessing what time management skills you might have. And/or TEACHING you the ones required.
Do the things that feed you. Avoid the things you feed.
Holly Lisle
I feed a lot of things. Little bits at a time but still... Yeesh.
Any way you cut it the first day was hard. I didn't cheat but it was hard not to. How I kept my constant writing in a journal from getting noticed by coworkers I'll never know - maybe I'm just that good :) This was an eye-opener and it should even have the bonus of helping me manage time at work as well.
DAY TWO. This feels like it's going to be fun. This is where you look at your day and you break down the time into priorities. Now I am in love with Excel and organization and making spreadsheets for everything so I'll probably go terribly overboard for this, but you can just do this on a plain sheet of paper though I would note: use a pencil or else have your correction tape handy. It looks simple on the outside, just a matter of organizing your information properly, but I have a feeling I might reorganize a few priorities.
She teaches you not only how to find the time that's wasted but ALSO how to use he time that you
have to spend on something else (washing dishes, cleaning the house, mowing the lawn, walking the dogs, etc) towards your writing, even if you cannot write at the moment.
So now I am off to create my own spreadsheet. I am happy the first day is behind me! I dreamed of constantly taking notes on what I was doing watching myself as if I were a clone; at least in the dream it was more exciting as the other me was trying to escape the note-taking clone.
I got so much information on that first day!! Today I am looking forward to sectioning out times and finding the hole in my life to fill with what's in my heart: writing.